My Life Up To Now ~ January 2018!

Hello, to, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Although my story was going to come out later with other news, how things are happening in my life right now, “I have received guidance to write it now and here”!
I have come a long way and I am completely in Good Health now, and why I started this blog with many supporting me, is to help others with what I have learnt along the way. Although we need to take medication and listen to the doctors, a very big part is in our hands, as the doctors do not live with us, they have their own life too. They see us only for a short time, and it is we who know what is going on with us in daily life, and what will work best for us. The whole world knows, how serious mental issues are, the sad part is not only those who are ignorant but there are people who, “Knowingly hurt and disturb those who are gone or going through issues” After going through many challenges, I have become more Confident and Stronger ❤

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I do not know how many of you face this kind of situation. To come across those who are very unkind, “To trouble and upset others”? There are many reasons for people to become mentally unwell. This is through long term stress and trauma, also injustice and all kinds of changes from mother nature. There are those who give their hand when people are in trouble, unfortunately there are some who become “Very Unkind” What they do not realize is, by being unkind they do Not get any Blessing from anyone. Learn to Live with Kindness, “Which is a Noble and Respectful way of Living” ❤

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In the world there are all sorts of people. The kind and soft, the wicked and harsh. The fact is wickedness is a result of an evil mind, which produces evil thoughts and words. Thoughts are energy and ‘evil thoughts produce a very strong negative force that begins to act against the normal way the body works. “The body begins to make toxins, instead of good chemicals ~ “A toxin is A Very Harmful substance produced within living cells or organisms”. It simply means, “It is a biologically produced poison” and they make changes from the inside of the body,” and until it comes out as diseases that cannot be detected, and then it is too late. Even when it is happening sadly some cannot stop their unkindness!

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How I have healed is giving attention to all of these. And now well on the way, “On My Spiritual Path, and I have advanced myself on it”. To achieve the higher knowledge, you need to free up your mind. The material world without spiritual Guidance can be full of unrest. You cannot balance your chakra’s and “Develop Wisdom” if You are unable to Let Go of unnecessary clutter, thoughts and things ❤

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“Whatever I have not been given, held back I have let gone, and actually they are nothing once you gain the higher knowledge, as once you achieve it, you receive things that money cannot buy”. It is true that we need money, but money is needed to pay for the essentials. There are many things that money cannot buy, like “Good Health”. “The biggest Wealth is Health” And I have achieved that health ~ Through meditation and prayers 🙂

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I am able to, “Receive energy from, “The Universe” and no one can take it away as it is a, “Gift from God”. I have gained it through, “Sheer hard work, Dedication and Sacrifice” ~ Which comes down the Generations, from My Great Grand Father and Grand Father for which I am very Thankful and Grateful, as all this time I have kept silent. As I am not known personally to clear any doubts I have posted his Details, “This is the Link that You may check their details are there: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi” ❤
I have Dedicated Myself for “Pure Service” to “Spread Loving Kindness” with Blessings from “Almighty God, The Higher Powers and The Universe” ❤

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If ever you come across situations like this, having to face selfish and unkind people, who ill treat you and try to disturb your life, know that there is always help from above. I have read that, “When You need to overcome difficult situations people turn to religion” as then one can sit and pray and ask for divine intervention. And know that you will receive it. Justice will always come. You must “NEVER LOOSE HOPE” As long as you are in the right, you will get help in the way of “Strength and Guidance” in knowing how to go about your life. Always have Hope and Faith also Patience until life turns in your favour. It will ❤

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Today I was especially guided for some reason, as I did not intend writing this article, and I am Grateful to “Almighty God, The Higher Powers and The Universe” for the guidance. I am Blessed ❤

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots Loving Kindness” ❤

So I am having to Edit and Upgrade almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

The older Topics “On the Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Own Journey in Good Health and Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net and the sites and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Picture Quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Believe In Your Potential!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Many of you must be busy getting ready for Christmas, for those who are celebrating, I wish you all, “A Very Merry Christmas” Remember it is not all about celebrating, but to honour, “Lord Jesus Christ’s Birth”, we need to remember his teachings of Love and Peace and also give and share with those who are less fortunate and in need. “In giving you shall receive” And you will be Blessed too in turn ❤

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From time to time in life we face so many challenges. Although these quotes say of women, it is relevant to men too. So don’t think it is only meant for ladies. With my experiences and with so many sayings, when it comes to mental strength somehow it seems women are more resilient. I believe this is something to do with mostly having to be mothers, as mother’s need to be strong and even fierce to protect their children. But in every situation there are exceptions, it can be that both can be strong too!

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Generally, in life, we ourselves are not aware how strong we are until we have to act upon some difficult situation. There are so many men and women that stay quiet in daily life, but having to face an extreme situation can raise themselves like lions. I know this as I have this experience. It is for survival as we are born to survive. That is why we are given so many opportunities to survive in adverse situations, as well as being able to read, get advice and learn to cope with life. At any time, “You need to have faith and keep moving on with zest and zeal. You have all what you need to face challenges and move on in style 🙂

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It’s a short one unlike others, but when I get that need, I somehow have to put down in writing. May be someone is in need of this advice right now ❤

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I hope you enjoyed reading what I have written, and also learnt something new, or remembered things You already knew. Be Strong. Lots of  Love from Me ❤

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“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. ” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a clear mind and Lots of  Loving Kindness” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and with  The Introductory page: I have Published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing! ❤

“I am Editing almost All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

 There will be some of  The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories. Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward writing My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

Thanking for the pictures taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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New Changes!

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Hope all of you are well. I have not been here for a while, as I have been busy writing some other articles. So, I am sorry I have not been visiting some of your blogs too. I am re-writing this article as so many have missed the old articles. We are all aware in life every day is not the same. We keep on changing and moving ahead. Even if we do not want to change, we do grow by the day and changes happens, as well as the whole environment changes around us. That is the norm of life. With that there come challenges over and over again for us to learn how to face and overcome them, to become stronger and wiser to move on in life to the next level 🙂

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Once you have overcome a challenge or challenges, you need to learn from them and organize yourself, to make sure the same things do not cause problems again. For this you need to, “Change” the things and people that do not work for you anymore. What it means mostly is, changing and adjusting to those people and situations that you have to live in, to fit in better. Changing is a process. Not only us it happens to animals too. Like reptiles, they too shed their whole length of outer skin from time to time. The eagle sheds all its feathers after 40 years to renews it self for another 30 years. Then why is this, Change become such a difficult process?

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Then how to make life a little easier for You, living in this complicated world? Well the most important word that comes in is, “To be prepared to change” When we know our work is done and we have to move on. But it is the reality. When people have outgrown you means they have changed their vibrations, hence some of their personality and their energies. So they no longer able to fit in with the same people and doing the same things. All that belongs to another era, which is called by the name, “The Past”!

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Even if it is for the good for us and is very difficult, but sometimes once we do the relief is great. By changing the past you make room for the new to come in, that will ultimately lead you to new places and people whom you fit in better and belong with, to lead much satisfied and happier and fulfilled life 🙂

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Hope you enjoyed reading what I have written, and learnt something to help in your life or even someone else’s life. Knowledge is like ripples that travels over and across lands and seas all over the world bringing everyone closer to share and learn from each other. It is for us to learn how change and letting go helps us to move on to a better level in life. Enjoy 🙂

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, but they have to be to be received with a clear Mind and Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been editing and updating almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post: Birthday!❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information” and even pronunciation. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thank You for Reading what I have written ❤ Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the posts taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Picture Quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You <

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

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What is Depression?

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I am re-doing some of the posts and this is exactly from 2 years ago and after. Looking back, “Its amazing, the journey I have come so far, in healing myself and advancing my knowledge, working, studying” and going about in life as, “A Complete normal human being” Actually I am a much stronger and knowledgeable person now as a result of all the experiences I had experienced through the Journey. This is because I made a concentrated effort in becoming well, making use of all the help I could get and above all, myself working towards healing 🙂

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Why I am writing like this is for those of you who are reading to have “Hope and Faith” and to “Believe in becoming well in time, with medication, counselling and/or psychotherapy”. It is possible to control and send the dragon back into its cave where it came from. In other words it goes into remission as it happens with so many other physical illnesses too. In becoming well, I have the opportunity in Enlightening and Guiding others who are in need of, I should say “Hope” to know that you also have that chance, the ability to, become well enough to lead a “Life of Happiness and Joy that you deserve” ❤

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This is an general explanation of Low moods also called Depression: (Which one doesn’t have to have all the symptoms all the time) it is being sad for a long time, and also known as darkness because, if you are depressed, you do not see the full colours of life. Meaning your eye tend not to attract bright colours, things even the clothes you wear and choose, tend to be dull. Just like when its a rainy day and the sky is dark and all around you is dull. Also you may lack energy, feel lethargic, lack of appetite, sleep, at the same time drowsiness, and feeling of dullness in general towards living. “When you can please, find someone who Understand You even friends. See Like The post below ❤

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“Look out for: Self-Help Books (I used to buy self help books and read so many articles from various free and cheap Magazines, even papers for more information). Self help books: have seen an enormous growth rate in the last ten years. Self help books usually help people grow in some way, be it mentally, physically or spiritually. The main goal of self help books is to unlock some inner strength that the reader already has and help set it free. The market for self help books is huge. The public will always want some help in order to improve their lives. This is the essence of self help books. The reader already knows the answers to the questions he or she is searching for. It just takes an author with acute perception to bring it out into the open. The subject matter for self-help books is limitless. Anything that can be a problem to anyone can be a subject for self-help books. Three of the most popular subject areas for self-help books are mental health concerns, life challenges and the all-time favorite, personal growth. Other experts may have achieved a certain status in their field and want to pass on their experiences. There is no doubt that self-help books help a great number of people. In subjects such as medical and mental disorders, some of the knowledge is invaluable and truly helpful.

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You can also refer to the I net.as well as Radio and or Internet Counselling. Can be You tube Videos even as there are so many who Give Talk therapy and Other ways of becoming Positive. Medication, as all these Help to make you Understand and Learn Better ways to Become Positive and well and Lead a life of Good Health and Happiness ❤

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You have to TRY your VERY BEST to do EVERYTHING POSSIBLE, to become energized and full of enthusiasm to get on with life. Which I am now. “Deepa” my name given according to my birth time means, “Light” Light has two meanings ~ Being “Positive and Bright”, as well as “Enlightening in knowledge”. So somehow years ago, according to my birth time this was the suitable name which was given by “My Grandfather. It’s said we are born with a plan? So was I born for exactly this purpose?  In that case, is it why I went through all these challenges to overcome, for a purpose? Time will give the answers? And it has 🙂

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Time has given the answers as, “Since December 2013 I was cleared from counselling, being said that I had come back to normal by my psychiatrist”. A word I never expected to have heard in my entire life. Suddenly the clouds had moved away, and out came the sun. Become Positive and well” The moment you become “Positive and well”, its just like the sun has come out and you see the world in all its glory 🙂 The world opened up to me “Full of Positivity and Colour” 🙂

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February 2016: I am keeping in Very Good Health and I have begun to receive this Healing energies to my hands. I have gained something that no one can take it away from me. It is something I have earned, “Through sheer hard work, Sacrifices, Sharing and Giving, Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest” ~ “The Powers, The Gifts, The Energies”, are not something that one can achieve easily. I had to take the full journey: cross all rivers, climb all mountains, do what ever to answer, “to fall in line with, “The Universal Energy” which is also called “Healing or Pranic energy” Energy Healing!. This is our life force energy which is also called, “Prana” in Sanskrit, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too ❤

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To be able to know who I am, I have posted My Full name in Who I am & Why I am Writing! and to be seen from where, “I have acquired “The Gift of Healing Hands” I have posted this link of, “Who My Grandfather is and My Great Grand father is : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi ❤
25th August 2019: “Not only have I acquired ~ “The Gift of Healing Hands”~ but also “Taking The Therapist’s Voice forward, in The Therapists Voice Forward!A 152
While updating on the 18th August 2019 at 12.42 just now I received Energy in to my Left Hand for a brief moment when I posted this picture below ❤

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It’s strange how life has taken a turn as what I wanted to do was Botany, as I loved plants. I did not want to do medicine or to be a doctor, but now I have and still am studying and reading on Psychology, Health and various other topics on life and even writing simple poetry as well. We can all study and Learn all through out our lives. We are all born for some specific purpose and it seems that “This is my Purpose, my Mission”. Aren’t I glad that I have got such a mission in my hands 🙂

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People go through hard times in their lives due to so many different reasons. Being physically ill, problems in jobs, professions, lack of money and/or family/children problems. And sometimes all or many of these come together. People looking from outside, do not see what is going in others personal lives, and can discourage and hurt others with no reason. Someone who is going through a very hard time, might completely go off track, by some insensitive and ignorant people’s attitude and, pushing them further into sadness and ill health. Being upset, they might even think of doing things “Not Positive or Healthy for them”. So “THINK CAREFULLY” before you say or do anything harsh without knowing what others are going through. “These are the times that the human mind cannot take it and it becomes unwell”. So always be aware, just because someone is well dressed and smiling there can be lot going on unseen within !!!Heal 10
The word that people use saying broken, is that your mind becomes unwell just like the body. Your spirit can be dampened, and it becomes too much for the mind and it begins to become unwell and then physically also one can become unwell, as the mind is also in the physical self, in short in the head somewhere. Its not only people who stresses or make you unwell, mother nature also does that with floods, volcanoes and many other tricks up her sleeves, and some can go on for a long time than you want to. This is why I am writing that it is possible for most of you to bring it down, keep it under control, if not fully to some extent, enough to lead a stress free life. If after a long time. I overcame my sad moods. So can you. When you have too many issues your head is over working trying to find solutions. Its mostly stress that you get headaches and most of the other illnesses. Its like a chess game inside your head, trying to figure out the best ways to overcome the problems and solve the difficult situations. You are able to organize and find better ways to do things and learn how to manage the situations better 🙂

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Please do not look down upon people who have mental issues. Being mentally unwell is Not an unnatural thing. Through stress, sadness which sometimes is not their fault that they become confused and unwell. This labeling and looking down upon people is All wrong. All people have a right to lead a life of Peace and Happiness ❤

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“It is this stigma that is preventing a lot of people going for help to the doctor that is making them more ill. Mental illnesses are supposed to be rising according to “WHO” (World Health Organization). What They think is by 2030 Depression is going to be the biggest cause of health burden in the world. I am sure glad that I am on the, RIGHT SIDE OF LIFE, ENCOURAGING and SUPPORTING PEOPLE TO LIVE HEALTHY and HAPPY. Lets Hope Things Improve and The numbers get less. I Sincerely Wish “All People to Overcome and Lead Happy and Normal Lives ❤ 

Be Brave and seek out help. Don’t let anything spoil your life. You have the right to lead a good life ❤

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Once you begin to talk, you help yourself to feel good to love and care for yourself. As none of us are born perfect. Sometimes its not seen why somethings happened to us. No one makes a mistake or takes a wrong turn if they know that it will not work well. It is reaching out to the closest thing, or a person, “As your fist instinct is to live well as this is how we are born” You are born to live well and live to tell your story to others to lift them up too 🙂

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It is said that those who have gone through any physical or mental stress themselves can understand another’s pain or hardships better. Someone who never had a headache would find it hard to understand another’s pain in the head. But one doesn’t have to undergo to understand another’s feelings all the time. As all human beings have feelings, and are intelligent and have a brain to think and analyze what is right and wrong!

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We don’t go through all the experiences ourselves in one life. How I became well is “LEARNING” from a combination of others experiences, my knowledge from very young days. As I wrote before: Even from The I net, books, magazines and other sources I came across. Each and everyone goes through some kind of experience, at some stage of their lives. Sometimes back when I posted this in my group, someone commented this is because, they feel the pinch. Well I am a survivor. I did fight to win over low moods. We all have to, “WORK HARD” to achieve what we want in life. I feel quite good that in spite of being named the light, I experienced some hard times managed to come out Positive and became what I am today. How I became well is from a combination of others experiences, my knowledge from very young days. Even from books, magazines and other sources I came across. Back to myself and even with, “More Experience and Knowledge to Guide Others to Lead a Better Life of Good Health and Happiness 🙂

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I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness”. I hope you enjoyed reading. And most sincerely Hope some of it will help you towards becoming well. And Move on “To A Brand New Future ❤ 🙂 ❤

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So I am editing and updating all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have been Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

There will be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side Under “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up, and Under “Archives and Category. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. I hope you enjoyed reading. And most sincerely Hope some of it will help you to Understand what exactly you need and towards becoming well and Happy 🙂 ❤ 🙂

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Posts done by me ❤

Love, Light and Healing Energies coming from me To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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