As Time Goes By!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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Hope all of You are keeping well and happy. I am writing about time as with what is going on recently, all of us have been having to stay indoors and movements have been restricted. I have been organizing the inside of my home in a way to work, to save time and energy. As its winter here in Australia somehow it seems to be much more colder than usual. So I have organized the upstairs to spend most of the time, in saving heating also. To have a hot drink as I read and write late in to the night, and also have my breakfast too. With a small baby fridge and a small microwave, with some money I have saved, which has worked very well as I find I have a proper breakfast than other days as well as my electricity bill does not go over too much. I had never thought to work in my bedroom but that too has been good as although my home is small, still I don’t have to heat up whole of upstairs but mostly the bedroom. I cannot post a picture of my bed 😀

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But here is one of the little writing tables, and some plants and a few lamp shades and things, all of which has been and are, very cheap here in shops, as so many are doing most of their work from home, been buying and some shops they have not been able to fill the shelves fast enough!

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Here in Aussie it is mostly, D.I.Y (do it yourself ~ meaning they come in packs and has to be put together yourself) a picture you can see ~ Two people putting a table together!
But I have been able to buy some second hand Tables and chairs less than even half price, chairs as low as $5/= while supporting my work, “as the money not only goes to to the needy people But, “Helping some to become Well and to Heal and therefore saving Lives”!

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Although I have not been writing posts for sometime, I have been here editing what I have been writing and redoing some of the picture quotes, with better words and brighter colours. Now I have become a little tired of editing and going through the old posts and need to move on to another chapter somehow. I believe it is because, by going to organize, “Time and saving money”, the whole place have gone through a very big change 🙂

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With the cold weather, most of the pot plants can stay out and I have put in some artificial plants, which also time and energy saving as, “They don’t have to be watered and less cold inside too!

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Only thing that has to be done is to, “Feed the birds” but they also go to their nests or where they sleep for the nigh, much earlier, and even some Hibernate, as it is cold and becomes darker much more earlier than Summer, where the day time is longer as the sun light stays a longer period than winter time!

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Above I found a clear picture of some of the plants and animals, how they change their environment!

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This is 19th of July 2020: I slept a little early and woke up, and now been here since middle of the night and the time now is 8.43 A.M on 20th of July! That means I have been up from the 19th to the 20th 😀 sounds funny don’t you think? I was posting picture quotes on my “Friendship Quotes on Face Book” https://www.facebook.com/DeepaNilamaniFriendship/ and I came up with a little poem about Time, which I have posted on my poetry site:https://deepanilamani.com/2020/07/19/as-time-goes-by/ 🙂

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21st July 2020: Continuing to write early in the morning today at 5.25 AM. Last evening I cleaned up the garage for more than one hour or so and ended up very very tired. Its the garage I park my little car as well as, doubles up as a place to store extra food items and also with racks to put my clothes to dry during rainy weather or even when I do a wash anytime, not having to run up and down, to take them before its dark in the evenings, as winter time it gets darker much quicker than Summer Time 🙂

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House work never ends as all of us have to maintain to dust and clean regularly, but if planned well one can save so much of time and energy, in my case to mainly to do reading and writing, as well as to do my other hobbies like gardening, and other creative things, here is a post that I did: How To Make A Collage! And  and below is a post that You can see what people do. But as each one of us are different, you can do what suits you best. Any hobby and also when it come to reading it does not have to be a novel itself, any type of reading, work indoor or out door. Also which I have written in the posts like: Hobbies ~ Do What You Really Like To Do!

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July 22nd 2020 5.38 AM: Up to date with “This picture post which is The 125th and with The Introductory page I have Published 126 posts on This Website. And then All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Today is “The 22nd of July 2020 6.06 AM and it is My Younger son Krishantha’s and Eldest Grand Daughter Sophie’s Birthdays. So I am Wishing both of them “A Very Happy Birthday” and Good Health, Happiness and Prosperity to All the others too. I did not plan so when I started the post, as the current situation there is no Celebration and spur of the moment thought it is a Good way of Wishing them ❤

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Own Journey in Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

So right now these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. As Everyday New Things are being Discovered and I like Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Lengths. Advancing Myself “To Higher Wave Lengths” And I Wish so for You also ❤

There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As when adding up so many posts, The line is Too Long”. Also Click and Look, “Under CATERGORIES” Happy Reading Keep Yourself Positive ❤

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine, which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures and https://www.wikipedia.org/ ,  https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done and YouTube for the Happy Birthday Video ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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How I am My Path was Born!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I hope all of you are keeping Well and Happy. I wish to be so. There are enough facts and figures going on so I need not add to all that. My Wish was always, “To Leave A Heart Print of Healing Energy as I walked along for “Good Health” and to be “Spreading Happiness and Joy to Everyone” ❤ ❤ ❤

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I love Beautiful pictures and Quotations. After I started Face Book, in 2011, Happiness Quotes was Born on The 24th August 2012. I created “Happiness Quotes page” to post, Happy and Bright pictures with Positive quotations of, Hope,Wisdom, Courage, Faith and Love. At “The Beginning” I had to learn “How to share a post itself” and then slowly “I Learnt to write on pictures” As I progressed, I found that I was getting over the Low Moods and started to become more Positive and Happier. And then slowly, “I started writing my Experiences and Knowledge of my journey of becoming well”. Without my being aware, Going through so much of Colourful and Uplifting Pictures and Quotations, I had been Uplifting Myself also and had become Very Positive. At the same time I also “Trained as an “ESL Tutor in (English as A Second Language)” and started working in TAFE (Technical And Further Education). I got this need to study further and, I started to study, on line and did Two Courses, “Personnel Development and Natural Health and Healing” through MSA (Monash University Student Association ~Training and Professional Development). I did these very well and then, started to study for A Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy. I wanted more Knowledge and to feel doing something to advance myself as well as, “Most importantly I wanted to show that, “People can overcome so called low moods and can concentrate and study and achieve Higher standards of Life to be Happy and Health and able to lead Normal Lives again!

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As I was studying, I needed to put my mind fully on the course and found my Mind going along “The Path of Healing” that was taking me away from being a Tutor of English. Besides I have been teaching English for a very Long time, starting with my sons and then, once they were grown up, I started teaching the children around my home, and doing the same thing was not all that interesting and Health and Healing became “More important”, That I stopped being a Tutor and became fully involved myself in to studying. In a way, The course itself was quite advanced and I needed to concentrate and put my mind fully into studying the notes, “The Theory part of it also”. Actually this was the “Best thing that happened to me, as I really learnt so much about the, “Theories and Techniques of Counseling and below are The Main Theories that I studied”:

1.) Psychoanalytic Therapy
2.) Adlerian Therapy
3.) Existential Therapy
4.) Person-Centered Therapy
5.) Gestalt Therapy
6.) Behavior Therapy
7.) Cognitive Behavior Therapy

All these really helped me while I was studying, as not only the theory part but, I had to answer my own way of “dealing with certain other client’s issues. How I would go about counseling them, in real life. The last Therapy, ” The Constructivist Approach to Cognitive Behavior Therapy ~ By Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, was what really worked for me, Like The cherry on The Cake” 🙂

Dr. Donald Meichenbaum:, New York, New York, United States is an American psychotherapist . He is considered one of the founders of cognitive behavioral therapy . He attended from 1954 to 1958, the Taft High School in New York City and then 1958-1962, the City College of New York . From 1962 to 1966 he studied at the University of Illinois in Urbana . From 1966 to 1969 he was Assistant Professor of Psychology, University of Waterloo , Ontario , 1970-1973 Associate Professor of Psychology and from 1974 to 1998 Meichenbaum was Professor of Psychology in Waterloo. In 1996, he became director of the Melissa Institute for Violence Prevention and Treatment in Miami , Florida. He was voted one of the Ten Most Influential Psychotherapists of the Century by North American Therapists in a 1999 American Psychologist Survey . He is considered one of the most cited psychological researchers at Canadian universities. “Dr Donald Meichenbaum is professor emeritus at the University of Waterloo, and “continues to work up to date April 2020” as a clinical psychologist. ~ https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Meichenbaum

“The Constructivist Approach to Cognitive Behaviour Therapy” Donald Meichenbaum  has developed his approach by in-cooperating the “Constructivist Narrative Perspective (CNP)” people tell of significant events in their Lives!
One of the, “Therapeutic tasks” is to help clients appreciate how they construct their realities and how, “They Author their own stories” 🙂

Therapists help clients on how they, “Construct reality (story tell) and examine the Implications and Conclusions clients draw from their own stories” Telling the of The Rest of The Story ~What They did to Survive and Cope ~ bolster clients Strengths and Help Them Develop Resilient behaviours. In this way, “Clients can Move from being Clients to ~ “Strong Willed Survivors” and “Successful People ~ Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

Dr. Meichenbaum uses these questions to evaluate the “Outcome of, “The Therapy”:
1. Are clients now able to tell, “A New Story about themselves and the World”?
2. Do clients now use more Positive Metaphors to Describe Themselves?
3. Are clients now able to “Predict high-risk situations and Employ Coping Skills in emerging problems”?
4. Are clients able to “Take Credit for the changes, “They have been able to bring about”?

In Successful Therapy Clients, “Develop Their Own Voices Take Pride in what They have Accomplished, and “Take Ownership of The Changes they are bringing about”. In short, “CLIENTS BECOME THEIR OWN THERAPISTS and TAKE THE THERAPISTS VOICE WITH THEM” 🙂

And This is who I became. Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Prosperity, Happiness and Joy and Peace at Heart ❤

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At The same times I have been, Praying and Meditating intensely since a very very long time. My wish was to, receive, “The ability to Heal” what I was asking was for Protection and for Guidance and Blessings. I was aware, “That My Maternal Grandfather had this Very Rare Gift of Healing, “Coming down through The Generations, and even My Great Grandfather was an, “Ayurvedic Physician himself.

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As “Eldest of The Grand children I had the good Luck to be able to” spend my school holidays with My Grandparents in their Home, and was able to see from Far where I was seated, “My Grand Father seeing Patients on certain days, when I used to go to pick him up, seated near the door, until he finished the last of the patients in the night” At that time I was not really aware, “What This Healing Gift was, But what I wanted was to, “To do service like him and My Grandmother, in giving which is, Being Dedicated for Pure Service” Little did I know, “That somehow what My Grandfather was doing “Had gone in to my mind at that time and as I was moving along, “Little by little I was Reading and Trying to Understand what it was”!

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It was then I started studying “Natural Health and Healing”, that I started getting energy into My Hands. A friend who was A Spiritual Healer herself asked if My Hands became warm when I came across someone who was not well. And also mentioned that it was, “My Grandfather’s Energy and also suggested some reading material to me”. Then on gradually I began to to understand more and more and finally I did begin to feel, “My Hands getting Energy at certain times even when I was writing on This Blog” and also when some of them needed Healing Energy” meaning I had, “Received the, “Gift of Healing to Both my Hands”!

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Ayurveda
 (/ˌɑːjʊərˈvdə, ˈv-/)[1] is a system of medicine with historical roots in the Indian subcontinent. Globalized and modernized practices derived from Ayurveda traditions are a type of alternative medicine. In countries beyond India, Ayurvedic therapies and practices have been integrated in general wellness applications and in some cases in medical use.
The main classical Ayurveda texts begin with accounts of the transmission of medical knowledge from the sages, and then to human physicians. In Sushruta Samhita (Sushruta’s Compendium), Sushruta wrote that DhanvantariHindu Ayurveda, incarnated himself as a king of Varanasi and taught medicine to a group of physicians, including Sushruta. Ayurveda therapies have varied and evolved over more than two millennia. Therapies are typically based on complex herbal compounds, minerals and metal substances (perhaps under the influence of early Indian alchemy or rasa shastra) ~ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ayurveda!

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April 24th 2020:Up to date with “This article is The 118th with, The Introductory page. I have Published 119 posts.. All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy Myself” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed ~ Anywhere in “The World”. But one must have to receive with a “Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Journey of Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

So right now these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

Also There will still The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories”. Happy Reading, and Do You like new Me below 😀

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have written and done and The other websites for the posts I have shared ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Natural Health & Healing!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope and Wish All of You to be Healthy and staying Calm as much as possible. Now that I know of “Healing Energy” I thought of “Sharing These Videos from “The You Tube” ~ For “You the Readers” to Listen and Watch and have an idea how “Energy Healing Happens” But “This is Not How I have got the Gift of Healing”!

According to This Video: This is “How Meditation is done” and how all this affect Yourself and then “The Society and The Whole World”. To Bring “Good Health, Happiness, Prosperity” and above all, “Peace and Harmony” especially at, “This Time of Our Lives”. But keep in Mind There are Many ways how each person follows. ❤ ❤ ❤

April 1st, 2020: Up to date with “This article which is the 114th and The Introductory page. I have Published 115 posts on This Website. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

So right now, these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All the Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish for You also ❤

As you are aware I do References also, for More and New Information, and even spelling, “To make sure, “I give out “The Very Best as much as possible”. So, I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Good Health, Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives. Happy Reading, Happy Meditating ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Taking the Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing 🙂 during my spare (Free) time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. “Download ~ Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ ❤ ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Counselling ~ 1!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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I have thought of sharing what I have received as Counselling as well as what I have studied on My Journey of Becoming well ❤

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“These are “Very advanced articles” and I need to write the exact meanings and clarify. So read very carefully. Picture Quotes from “The I Net” BUT “What I am writing is NOT copying straight from The I net or other books. What I am writing is “Mostly My first-hand Knowledge and Experiences, and also, doing references. BUT “It has to agree with what I know and feel it is correct!

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Now I need to “Concentrate and I am writing carefully explaining and clarifying as much as possible”. As there will be new words that, “I also Look Up for the exact Spelling and Meanings”. “That You will also need to know, “As the Meaning or the Definition” from the I net or the Dictionaries. Both the two posts Above and Below give these: Points ❤

Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.
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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to someone who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non-Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what the Client/You have to say. They have to, “Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” They have to know usually of your culture To Understand Your way of Thinking and doing things in Life”!

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Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.

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Paraphrasing involves taking a passage – either spoken or written – and rewording it. … When paraphrasing, it is important to keep the original meaning so that the facts remain intact. Basically, you are writing something in your own words that still expresses the original idea ~The I net!

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How to Reduce Stress:

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How to Avoid Stress?
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None of us work 24/7 and there is always some free time to relax. Also relaxing does not need a lot of money either. Of course, if one has extra money to spend, there are many expensive ways to relax also. But actually, you do not need to spend like that. As relaxing is becoming one with mother nature. The closer you become to mother earth, by ways of food, clothes and living the closer you become to a stress-free life. It is difficult to lead a complete stress-free life in this present times. But there are plenty of simple ways to relax like the post above, and below, to reduce our stress levels and enjoy a balanced and healthy life 🙂

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Although it is said “How Music benefits kids” It is not only for them it is also for adults of All ages.

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These are Some of “The Benefits of Counselling” ❤

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about!

So I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, Daily New Discoveries are made, and Latest Information is available. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word Menu 1a Menu when you” Click on it, you will see the word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

There will still be the old Topics “On the Left-Hand side Under the Recent posts with the new posts adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Talking About My Own Journey of Wellness”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: Taking the Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself HURRY I am anxious to see who and where I will start getting Letter ❤

HURRY HURRY I like to see from where and who will send the 1st lot ❤

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under the “Starlight Foundation ~ Gifts!

You have to also give what you need and the ages and if it’s a boy or a girl. When you write as much as possible: even if I send Money if you are not able to buy. Like food: Chocolates or things like clothes or sheets and pillowcases as much as you can so that I know what and how it is possible 🙂

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

“A Very Special Thank You to I net and All the Other sites and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) from Me and My Readers” for the Pictures and the Quotes shared and done by me on this Blog ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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